Hate that people are saying things about you behind your back? Stop it now.
Don't partake in gossiping yourself. This gives you more credibility. If someone's bold enough to make up gossip about you then they probably do it to others as well, which means they will eventually lose credibility. Don't say "Well she..." say something like "Those things aren't true, but I'll let you make up your own mind about so-and-so
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Go to the source of the problem and find out who created the rumour and spread it. Make sure you are totally calm before you do it. Ask why the person spread the rumour. While one person may appear to be the source, they aren't always. A lot of rumors start from one miscommunication that turns into a bigger problem
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Live your life so that people will know the rumour is not true. Rumours are a form of social bullying and it is important that you don't let the bullying affect your life
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Be polite to the person who spread the rumour to show that you are the better person. Even if you hate their guts don't give them the satisfaction of thinking that it affects you
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Deny the rumor's truth to anyone who asks. If you go out of your way to defend yourself it will seem as though you have something to hide
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Forgive, but don't forget. After you win, the spreader will probably want to be your friend. Refuse the offer, even if you don't want to, so that people won't want to mess with you
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Continue to live your life as if nothing ever happened
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Don't show the gossipmongers you are angry, defensive or upset, it can give them the morsels that you have something to hide. The best way is to be calm, honest and but concise
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NEVER tell them to mind their own business. They might think you have something to hide, you are being rude or they can get sarcastic or angry with you and say 'It is my business' and they can spread it to others and they might press you for information even more
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Be confident. Even if you are not a confident person, you can always try to be one. Ooze confidence out of yourself, even in tricky situations. The key to being confident is knowing your assets, polishing them, and showing them off to the world, but remember to also be humble
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Don't break down. Even if you have had the worst day imaginable, and you really can't handle them, stick at it, keep your cool because you know you are invincible
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